A recent New York Times opinion piece connects the outcome of the 2024 presidential election, where Donald Trump emerged victorious, to the frustrations of young men and the rise of the so-called "manosphere." Playwright Sarah Bernstein, the author of the op-ed, contends that prevailing cultural narratives still perpetuate the notion that a woman's social standing is linked to her partner's success, while a man's status can be diminished if his partner is more accomplished.
Bernstein's article, "How Our Messed-Up Dating Culture Leads to Loneliness, Anger and Donald Trump," highlights the diverging trajectories of men and women in contemporary society. In the wake of Trump's win against Kamala Harris, accusations of sexism, misogyny, and racism have been leveled against Trump and his supporters. The op-ed suggests that as women make strides in various areas, traditional relationship dynamics are disrupted, leading some men to embrace outdated gender stereotypes and contributing to the growth of online communities focused on masculinity.
Bernstein argues that romantic comedies often reinforce the idea that a woman should strive for both career success and a husband who is even more successful. This, she claims, contributes to the "male breadwinner norm" and fuels the "manosphere," which she describes as a space where online personalities and certain politicians promote a traditional view of masculinity as a solution to men's perceived problems.
Both Trump and Harris engaged with various podcasts during the election cycle. Trump's appearances on shows like the Nelk Boys, Joe Rogan, and Theo Von were seen as attempts to connect with younger male voters.
Bernstein points out that while the "manosphere" often criticizes women perceived as seeking financial gain in relationships, much of its content actually reinforces the male breadwinner ideal, linking financial success to masculinity and suggesting that women are biologically predisposed to seek out providers.
Harris also participated in podcasts like "Call Her Daddy" and "Club Shay Shay." While her campaign reportedly sought an appearance on Joe Rogan's podcast, it ultimately didn't materialize.
Data suggests a shift in voting patterns among Gen Z. While Democrats typically secure a significant portion of the youth vote, early exit polls indicated that Harris received only 54% support from this demographic.
Bernstein concludes by advocating for a rejection of the "manosphere's" limited view of masculinity and suggesting that both men and women can achieve success in their careers and relationships. She encourages readers to shape a future where this is possible.
